Thursday, May 20, 2010

Comforts of Home

I got home late on Tuesday night, and as I walked out of the airport at midnight watching an adoption "Welcome to America" party to greet a toddler Chinese girl with balloons and crying new grandparents, I was so overwhelmed with the joy of being home. Kendyl lovingly (and begrudgingly, if we're honest, though it was WAY past her bedtime, haha) came to pick me up, and we hauled it home to see if jet lag would let me sleep...

I keep thinking about my last week or so in China - I may be going back again but it's possible it was my last ever, and I was sad to leave. I had fun with my friends that week, we went to International Day at the local international school, and Curt and I got out and enjoyed the motorcycle a few times... I fear he has gone native - he's a crazy driver and in denial about it, and even honks his horn at no one just like the Chinese do! Next thing I know he'll be walking around town in his underwear... haha. I got some last minute shopping in, filled my suitcases to within 1 pound of their 70 pound limit, and then I was off!






Here's a picture of one of my last minute purchases - a scroll silk painting we bought that Curt and I are excited about. Long story short I'm not a huge fan of Chinese art or decor, but I realized that when we do move home, if you walked around our house you wouldn't be able to tell at ALL that we have spent a year and a half in China, so I decided I would go hunting for a piece of art that I *did* like. It took awhile, but Curt and I went to Bar Street and stumbled upon this one... it's as large as a door, and is a painting of white cherry blossoms. We loved it, and negotiated like crazy (we make an incredible negotiating pair), and landed it - WHOOP!




The flight seemed long - I watched 4 movies: Leap Year (love!), Book of Eli (had never heard of it but loved it - it's one of those movies that you think about even days later), When in Rome (satisfactory), and something else I can't remember now... I did get some sleep, probably 3 hours total, which isn't great for a 14 hour flight but better than none, and was actually a few minutes early into Newark (someone mark that down, I'm pretty sure it's Newark's first since their air traffic control is always screwed up), so got to relax instead of run to my gate, or miss my flight all together like last time.

So now I'm home, and though my first day back was hard - missing Curt and unsure when I'm going to see him next, and didn't have Maverick's happy face yet, and Kendyl at work (Mom and Dad are out of town), and had to go see my empty house and unsure if we're going to get to move back in it, thinking about the million things I have to do, etc. - I was also relieved to be back! Just to inhale clean air is a huge thing - we definitely take it for granted and over the past two days I have found myself breathing very deeply whenever I'm outside, LOL.

Yesterday was better - I had lunch with friends, went shopping at HEB (the convenience of grocery shopping is another thing we take for granted), a good walk with Maverick, and got a lot done on my list of things to do, caught up with a few friends on the phone, watched some TV shows that my fam has saved for me on DVR, and have a beautiful bouquet of flowers from Curt sitting in the kitchen...




Today I have the walk through of our house with the renters and relocation people from their company, and lots more items on my to-do list that I'll be slowly whittling away at!

And here's a pic of Maverick modeling his new vest... it fits him perfectly and he totally cracked me up - I think he likes it but he was totally posing as I was trying to get a good shot! LOL

Monday, May 10, 2010

Singapore Sun

So last week Curt and I went to Singapore - he had a big meeting there where people were flying in from all over the world, and they decided Singapore would be the meeting place - fine by us because I got to come along for my first tagalong business trip - Whoop!

We had such a great time, though of course it was a little different than a normal "vacation" as Curt was busy doing work stuff most of the time. We did tack on a weekend at the end so that he could see Singapore, too, so that was good, but for the most part this post is going to be about what I saw of Singapore... which thanks to Heather, was a lot!

Singapore is such a great city... very clean, metropolitan, friendly, and SUNNY and HOT! Curt and I were in heaven and before we even got out of the airport were already commenting how lucky Singapore expats are... for real. Everything smells floral, not just clean, and everything is so technologically modern. That's one thing that's kind of weird about the city, too, though - it's SO modern that it seems to be a city lacking history - you really have to dive deep for it which is unlike any other city we've visited in the East thus far.

Singapore's claim to fame is shopping malls - huge ones, small ones, luxury ones, and everything on every spectrum. Heather took me around and showed me many, but as everything there is ridiculously expensive AND neither of us are huge shoppers, it was mostly admiring window shopping and her just showing me the sights.

Heather also took me to the famous Orchid garden inside the Botanical Gardens where we had a photo safari day, so below I've posted a few of my favorites (of the 300+ pictures I took, haha). The orchids were truly breathtaking and they were everywhere you looked... such a dainty flower in my mind but here they grow like weeds and in every color of the rainbow! The rain came later that afternoon so we slowly made our way back - their public transport is as well organized and easy as London's and I suspect fashioned after London.

We had to eat dinners mostly with Curt's work group, and went to Clarke Quay which is this adorable outdoor eating/pedestrian area along the river, but also fit in a couple of dinners with Heather and Ben, too! Heather also took me to see Boat Quay, Robertson Quay, Chinatown (really nice compared to China, even!), a wet market, a hawker center, the Ion (most expensive real estate in Singapore), the Esplanade and to see the Merlion, and the MOVIES with their friends to see Iron Man 2 ("it's gonna be Siiiiick!") LOL

We had such a great time, and I was so grateful to have a friendly and willing tour guide!

Coming from cold China to hot Singapore took its toll on me and Curt though - after a few days we were dehydrated, and always felt tired despite the copious amounts of water we were drinking.

Over the weekend the two of us hit the zoo - Heather told us it was a must see as a lot of their monkeys kind of run "loose" around the treetops near their habitats. And it was amazing... a cotton-topped tamarin was within a finger's distance of touching me - it touched Flat Stanley instead and I was so excited! - and we got to see orangutans up close and personal. What was so neat about the zoo is that I guess since Singapore has one climate all year around, the animals are all acclimated and despite it being in the heat of day, everyone was out wandering around!

That night for dinner we went out to Chijmes, a church and converted cloisters area that is now a popular dining place for night life. It was so cool and a neat concept... we didn't get to go in the church as there was a wedding that night, but we ate at the churrascaria there and had our fill of meat.... yea for being a carnivore!

Our hotel was on Orchard Road which is a big shopping district and tourist area, and usually every night after dinner we'd go hang out at this Irish Pub that was close by. I had some great cider, and Curt his Guinness after some VERY fine meals, and we really enjoyed hanging out with Curt's colleagues and coworkers. They were mostly all men slightly older than us, and a mix of Scottish, Irish, German, and other cultures, so we had the best time ever joking and chatting. I even finally met someone who has given a Glasgow kiss... how exciting is that?!

One night after an evening at the pub, one of the guys who had visited Singapore numerous times decided Curt and I in our young and innocent ways needed to be educated on the "other" side of Singapore. Just down the street, in this building that is I think an indoor strip mall by day, is the Four Floors of Whores... LOL. Heather had told me it was around somewhere while we were out walking Orchard Road one day, so I was kind of prepared, but then I wasn't, because apparently everyone here is a woman that used to be a man... picture a very surprised face here! Oh my goodness!

It was shocking, and while I could tell mostly that these women were really men, I'm sure 90% of men out there would not be able to at ALL which is highly scary... gone are the days when Adam's apples and bigger hands are the give away, these she-men were dead ringers for the finer sex which just goes to show you how far cosmetic surgery and hormones have come... I felt like I was an anthropological observer!

So we go into this bar, and I mean it was ok, they aren't lewd and aggressive,and it's not disgusting, they're just there hanging around - we were told not to make eye contact if we didn't want any "attention," but it didn't matter because they can apparently spot a real woman a mile away and didn't try to come over to our group. I must have served as some sort of repellant which was fine by me - so we sat down to take in the "scenery." It was interesting, that's for sure... what blew my mind is how can Singapore get so crazy bent out of shape over chewing gum and litter and allow this? Doesn't really make sense to me...

We didn't stay very long at all, as it was more of watching a freak show than anything else, but I had such a mixture of emotions! On one hand, part of me wanted to laugh, and on the other, I wanted to cry - it was so strange. But yes, an education. We left and I felt glad that I had seen it, and yet relieved that I was leaving... the world is a strange place and I don't ever want to be naive enough to think that this kind of stuff is out there, even if it is disturbing and way out of my personal comfort zone.

All in all, though, Singapore was fantastic and really we are jealous of anyone that gets to live there, despite of how expensive it is for literally almost everything! If we had gotten to stay longer we would have taken the 2 hour flight over to Bali - how awesome is that? - or possibly gone to KL which would have been really cool, too.. oh well, for next time, I guess?

We did love getting to hang out with people that we knew though - between Curt's coworkers and all of the dinners, and Ben and Heather and Heather's girlfriends, we had such a great time! Seeing Iron Man 2 was just so awesome, and we even got to watch a movie and Ben and Heather's place while enjoying some caipirosca's - umm, YUM!

In the airport on our way home we were sad to leave,though... I got to "pet" some koi fish, we enjoyed the butterfly garden, and got free foot massages for the two hours before our flight after some Burger King and Mrs. Fields cookies... yep, we were definitely sad to leave such a paradise!

Here are a few favorite pictures from our time there!


























Pics of Chinese Interest

So here are the purchases from Hong Kong that I wrote about in my previous post...

The magic heating pads and Maverick's new vest!



And here is how the heating pads work - they are AWESOME!



And here are a few miscellaneous shots of our new place and China life in general... don't be fooled, these were all taken on the same ONE sunny day (I've counted a total of FOUR since I got here almost 2 months ago)!

Our very messy guest room, with the desk and my computer :-)



The Koi pond right below the guest bedroom window



The pathway leading up to our building



The little river with a boat and sculpture - I think this area is so sweet



Curt on "Bella," his Chinese toy before we take her for a spin... don't worry, we're bringing her home!



My beautiful South Sea pearl ring - my own custom design!